It is quite common to think positively about people around us and appreciate their good qualities, yet keep those thoughts to ourselves. We worry about being judged, or not wanting to make the other person feel uncomfortable. I think withholding positive thoughts could not only be detrimental to others but also too ourselves.
I've found telling people the nice things I think about them can have a significantly positive impact on their lives, a simple compliment, a kind word, can brighten someone’s day. It makes people smile, and who knows it may even provide them with the motivation and encouragement they need. Complimenting friends on their kindness and empathy, telling friends or family members how much you appreciate their support, and saying out loud the nice thoughts you have could potentially make a huge difference to their lives.
When we keep our positive thoughts to ourselves, we also deprive ourselves of the potential for growth and learning, sharing my thoughts with others, often leads to more authentic conversations, connections, and a better understanding of each other. Expressing positive thoughts and feelings is a game-changer, it helps me notice peoples strengths and good qualities. It can feel awkward or difficult at first, but it becomes easier with practice, compliment someone on their appearance, thank someone for their help, or congratulate them on their achievements.
So next time you think something nice about someone even just for a moment, try to remember sharing your positive thoughts really could make a whole world of difference to that someone.
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