This resonated with me...

"Don't teach your partner how to be your partner.

Don't ask them to text you throughout the day to check on your mental health. 

Don't ask them to make a reservation at your favourite restaurant unannounced. 

Don't ask them to make you a warm bubble bath after you had a long day after work. 

Don't beg them to acknowledge your existence. 

The right person will do all this and more. 

Find someone who has has always dreamt about having someone like you ever since they were a child. 

Find someone that shows you how much you truly mean to them with every day that passes. 

Find someone who not only says "I love you" but proves it to you with their actions.

Find someone who hurts other people's feelings to protect yours. 

Find someone who supports your dreams and life goals.

Find someone who knows it's not about giving you the world, but to only make you a priority in theirs. 

Find someone who chases you long after they already have you. 

Find someone who traces the valleys and crevices of your body with their fingertips to remember every detail about you when they miss you. 

Take my advice and wait for this person 

because the longer you entertain what's not meant for you

the longer you postpone what is."

"We are told too often to change who we are to find someone...

to settle for anyone. 

NO! 

Be YOU and the right person comes.

However...don't be afraid to communicate your needs. 

And if it happens naturally after that

I'd say it's just as magical. 

Find someone who WANTS to make you happy.

Find someone who will dance with you, if all you want to do is dance."

Here's the thing:

There are EIGHT BILLION PEOPLE on this planet.

STOP trying to bend ANY of them to fit what YOU want them to be.

Let 'em be who the fuck they ARE...

If it works, great.

If not, say thank you and move along.

The one who fits you? They're waiting.

And the one who fits THEM? They're waiting too.

Say thank you...and move along.

You're spending your own time, and your own energy, your own heart & soul in the arguing, the protesting, the pleading, the resistance...

You don't argue with a pair of gloves that doesn't fit...

stop arguing with humans who don't fit.

Not by Maggie Martin (but I completely agree)